I'm Quest. A 20-something explorer of bodies and fantasies. First thing you should know about me: I love sex. Second thing, I always try to avoid judging people. I hope this blog fuses these two facts.
Why we exist
I've always loved rougher sex. Until now, I thought it was just your run of the mill forcefulness, but my interests have started creeping into a newer more masochist territory. Something about crossing into the kink world terrifies me. Media shuns deviant life. I'm already a bisexual. You know, the so called too greedy sluts who are confused about who they are. What would being a kinkster add to that image? It's not that I care a great deal about others' opinions, but that deviant feeling sometimes disturbs me. I sometimes wonder if I'm a freak for finding pain pleasurable or a pervert for wanting to explore suspension and gangbangs. Even more than introspective uncertainty is my fear of the unknown. I don't know what the extent of my interests will be. Part of me is worried that I won't be quite deviant enough for the community. *sigh* Kink is so vague and doesn't even scratch the surface of what BDSM could be.
I am breaking into the community. I am finding kinky mentors. I am passing on my experiences.
And thus my adventure has started.
How this blog works
This blog will be a mixture of personal experiences laced with advice from mentors I have met. The personal experiences will chronicle my entry into and exploration of the kink community. In addition, I will invite any all questions and stories from readers. I am actively asking for tales from vets to really guide us newbs, so shoot me an email at ConsensualRoughness [at] gmail [dot] com with questions and concerns.
Throughout the week, I will be posting to the product review section. The products will range from lubes to nipple clamps. It'll depend on what I'm trying that week. Generally, you should look to see new postings every Monday.
And without further ado...The Rough House is open.
Quest is a switch in training